Monday, December 20, 2010
How To Find Your Soulmate
Many people feel that there is one person out there who can enrich your life in a way that no one else can. if this is true, how can you increase your chances of finding this person? and when you meet him/her, how will you know it's your soulmate?
Make yourself a better person. Instead of waiting for your soulmate to appear, make yourself apparent to him/her. become the spectacular human being you want to be. expressing your individuality is the closest you can come to advertising your soulmate potential. not only you will stand out, you will also be doing things that are more likely to bring you closer to your soulmate, who probably has similar interests and goals.
Your soulmate might not be what you expect. If there is only one person in the world who can be your soulmate, what are the chances that he/she will live in your town, look like the people you grew up with, or even speak the same language? if you are expecting your soulmate to be love at first sight, you may never find what you are looking for. so keep an open mind. part of the romance is being pleasantly suprised.
Be patient. Fate doesn't work on a schedule. Yes, you might look forward to spending the majority of your life with your soulmate - perhaps buying a house, getting married, starting a family - but it may/may not be in the cards.
A soulmate isn't always a life mate. Your soulmate will colour your world no matter how old you are, so don't rush into things, or else you might end up forcing the wrong person into the box, which will cause pain for everyone involved.
Accept people for who they are, not who you want them to be. Unrealistic expectations can ruin a relationship, and may chase your soulmate away. Appreciate their individuality and respect that they will never need to change who they are for you, just like you will never need to change yourself for them.
Weather the storms. Contrary to popular belief, meeting your soulmate doesn't guarantee "happily ever after." things won't get easier when you find that special someone and in fact, they might get even harder. Ultimately, a soulmate is someone you can grow with, and the only way to grow together is to face challenges together. put your heart and soul into a relationship and stick with it through the ups and downs, and you may look back decades later and realise you have a soulmate
source: New Straits Times/ 19 November 2010
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